Saturday, August 08, 2009

That time of year again....back to work

I started back to work on Monday. Baby Corey is coming a MONTH from tomorrow. Life is insane.

Those three sentences say a lot about my life and heart right now.

It was good to start back to work. I like adult interaction and routine. I know that is weird, but I really am my best self when I have outlets and a plan. I have slept better, been more productive, and been much better about not wasting time. This year is a little different for several reasons.

1. I am 8 months pregnant, which means I am hot and tired.
2. Carley is not going to go to Granny's this year. She has been at Granny's since she was a few months old. Even though we weren't related to Granny, she felt like family and there was comfort leaving her in a home. Last year we added preschool at Sugar N Spice two days a week. Overall, this was a good experience for Carley. This year Granny doesn't have a spot for Corey and I want them to be together each day for my sanity, so the Nelsons moved to a full time day care. More on this in a minute.
3. We got a really great new Superintendent. He is a great man, charismatic, energetic, and all about change. This has brought a whole new energy to our district. The hard thing is all of our jobs and descriptions are changing to some extent. Trying to figure all of that out this week has been a little crazy.
4. I have Nonstress tests for Corey twice a week an ultrasound once a week, and starting weekly appointments just to check him. So far, all is good, but, as my principal says, "We want to land my disastrous Apollo 13 pregnancy successfully". We would really appreciate prayers that these last 4 weeks are smooth. It is really stressful trying to schedule all of this around working full time and Carley.

My camera is broken so I can't post pictures, but Carley has had a GREAT week at her new place. They do the coolest stuff and the accountability is great. Here are my favorite or the funniest things about her new school.

1. There is an indoor play center at the facility that has a huge roller skating rink, ball pit, and climbing gym with slides. Carley thinks this is awesome. Twice a week they get to ride their scooters around the rink. She got a new princess scooter and loves to ride it.
2. I can log onto the Internet at anytime and see her class. I can see them on the play grounds too. It is awesome to be able to check on her.
3. They provide breakfast, lunch, and snacks. This is SO nice for me in the mornings. She has already had two servings of fruits and veggies by the time she gets home.
4. Carley's teacher is Hispanic and has taught Carley some really cool stuff. One funny thing happened the other day. She asked me if I care if she plays with Carley's hair. She loves to do little girl hair and sometimes after rest she puts the girls hair in matching pigtails/ponytails/braids/etc. I told her that was great, but Carley barely let me brush her teeth so I wasn't sure how it would go. On Wednesday I picked Carley up and her hair was in CORNROWS!!!!!!! 12 little braids and then a bun in the back. It was so funny. I will post pictures very soon. Can you imagine?
5. They are working on counting to 100, tying their shoes, and associating sounds to all their letters. Carley can do some of this already, but it is nice to see her challenged some academically. Last year at preschool the learning time was shapes, colors, and numbers to 5. It is amazing the difference in 5 day a week care.

Being a mom is hard. It doesn't matter if you work, stay home, or do part-time, it is hard. You want to make sure you are doing the best thing for your child, your family, and your sanity. Daily I am glad I work full time and daily I wish I stayed home. Daily I am glad Carley gets so many cool opportunities and daily I wish she was home in her pjs. Daily I think Cody and I have made the best decision for our family and daily I second guess myself. I do know I am doing my best and Carley is adjusting great. The only tears this week were by me. She loves her little world is able to have fun all the time, with me or away.

So here's to another year or fun, challenges, and blessings. I am glad we are all in this together.

12 comments:

Jennifer K said...

Whoa, whoa, whoa...you said Baby Corey is coming a week from tomorrow. That means August 16th??!!! What happened, what changed, what's going on?!

Jennifer K said...

I forgot to add that you have a great set-up for you and your family. It works for y'all and thats great! Be Proud! And I can't wait to see the cornrow pictures!! SO fun!

Kelli said...

Sounds like things are off to a wild-but-fun start! I can't imagine making all of these decisions and dealing with working AND having a family. I really admire how you and Cody make things work! I can't wait for sweet Corey to arrive, he is coming to a good place!

Luft Family said...

Being a mom is hard!!! You are doing a great job and I am glad that Carley has such a good week. Prayers were answered for ya'll.

Ashley said...

Yeah, sorry about that, I meant a month from tomorrow. I guess all the the blood has shifted from my brain to my placenta :)

Trent and Mindy said...

I loved your thoughts about being a mom. Even in the last three months of motherhood, I have had similar thoughts and feelings of uncertainty and yet pure joy at the opportunity to parent our sweet baby. God bless you as another baby enters your world. Will be praying all goes smoothly for all of you.
Mindy

Jodi said...

You are a FABULOUS Mommy. Period. Love you!

Oh, and her school sounds AMAZING.

Phillips Family said...

Carley's new school sounds awesome! I cannot wait to see the cornrow picture.

That last paragraph is the best summary of motherhood I have ever read.

Amy said...

You're an awesome mom and I'm glad that you work. Your school is blessed to have you -- you're awesome at what you do! On NPR yesterday (nerd) I heard a segment parenting and the commentator said we are the most nervous society in the world. Word! You love your kid(s), protect and provide. The rest is icing. Don't sweat it!

Felicia said...

I feel like I should post this exact post on my blog! We are feeling the exact same way! Eli will be here around the same time as Corey, I'm starting back to work on Monday, we're making decisions about part-time/full-time and whether or not to put Camille into a full time preschool program instead of the in-home care she's in right now. She is starting a 2 day program this year. Decisions are hard and sometimes seem to be even harder with 2 people instead of yourself. Clayton and I have been praying and laying out our thoughts alot lately! This time will pass and our kids are going to turn out great with the Lord's guidance! Who told us parenting would be so difficult?

PrEsToNs said...

wow that snds like a fantastic place to take her! aww shes gonna learn so much!!
well def pray the rest of the pregn goes smooth and cant wait to c pic of her hair and meet her brother!!!

Becky said...

I am Kelli's friend. May I inquire as to the name of your daycare?? I am staying home this year, but who knows about next year? It sure sounds like a great place.

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